I'm 23 and just starting to get into intercourse. The first time really hurt, and I actually had to ask my boyfriend to stop because the pain was unbearable, although I didn't bleed. When we tried again, entering was easier, but it still stung quite a bit. I've heard it takes time for it to stop hurting and start feeling good, but I'm wondering if I should get checked now that I'm becoming sexually active. How long is it normal to experience this pain before it turns pleasurable? We've been using condoms as I'm aware of the side effects of the pill, and thankfully, my periods haven't been affected yet. Is there anything we can do to lessen the pain, or any tips for this situation?

Answered by 1 Apollo Doctors

Dr Mubarak Parveez B

General Practitioner

MBBS
2+ Yrs

Consult Now

Considering your painful experiences during intercourse, it's a good idea to consult a gynecologist to rule out any underlying conditions like vaginismus, vaginal dryness, or anatomical issues; in the meantime, you can try relaxation techniques, lubricants, and gradual, gentle penetration to reduce discomfort, and continue using condoms for contraception,

Dr. Mubarak Suggests...

Consult a Obstetrician and Gynaecologist

Find a Obstetrician and Gynaecologist

Answered 04/07/2025

More Obstetrics & Gynaecology Health Queries

View all

I'm dealing with some unexpected clitoris swelling today, everything was alright yesterday. Can you suggest a basic cream that's suitable for treating infections in such sensitive areas?

#NAME?

Answered by 1 Apollo Doctors

I'm a little worried and curious if I might get pregnant. The doctor prescribed Siphene for 5 days, which I've already taken. We had a relationship after that. Do you think there's a chance I could be pregnant?

Taking Siphene (Clomiphene) for 5 days can help stimulate ovulation, increasing the chances of pregnancy if you have had intercourse during your fertile window. However, pregnancy is not guaranteed, as it depends on various factors like egg quality, sperm health, and timing. Keep monitoring your cycle and consult your doctor for further guidance.

Answered by 1 Apollo Doctors

I'm around 5 and a half weeks pregnant and I took mifepristone followed by 4 misopristone tablets vaginally about 4 hours later. I've had a blood clot since about 3 hours ago, along with pain and cramping. Plus, one tablet came out after 3 hours. Can you help me understand what's going on with my situation?

By getting an ultrasound on day 11

Answered by 1 Apollo Doctors

Health Articles for you

View all

Menstrual Disorder

What Leads To Delayed Period

Experiencing a late or missed period? Learn about the common causes of a delayed period, from stress and lifestyle factors to medical conditions, and when to see a doctor.

General Medical Consultation

Your Complete Guide to Short Stay Gynae Surgeries Recovery Made Easier

Explore short stay gynaecological surgeries, their benefits, common procedures, recovery timelines, and preparation tips. Learn how minimally invasive options make treatment easier and faster.

General Medical Consultation

Understanding Underarm Lumps and Breast Cancer

Worried about an underarm lump? Understand the common, benign causes of armpit lumps and learn when they might indicate breast cancer. Discover key signs to watch for and why prompt medical evaluation is crucial for peace of mind.

pregnancy

Understanding Maternal Obesity And Its Effects

Understand maternal obesity and its effects on pregnancy, baby’s health, and long-term wellness, with prevention and management tips.

Breast Feeding Couseling

The Unbeatable Advantages of Breastfeeding for Mother and Baby

Discover the unmatched benefits of breastfeeding for both mother and baby, from immune protection and optimal nutrition to long-term health and emotional well-being.

Disclaimer: Answers on Apollo 247 are not intended to replace your doctor advice. Always seek help of a professional doctor in case of an medical emergency or ailment.